Khaleesi Lee sex tip #1. Dont be afraid to talk dirty! Talking dirty is actually one of the best ways to get the faucet running. If you are shy or just don’t know how to start, here’s a trick, start by talking about the physical act, for example “you like the way I lick it”? That will open the doors for communication for both you and your partner and as time goes on you both will find yourselves talking dirtier and dirtier.